How to be a Confident Woman

How to be a Confident Woman






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If you want to feel more confident follow below steps in life:

  • Listen More than They Speak
  • People who are confident they listen more than speak by actively listening and paying attention to others, they are much more likely to learn and grow.
  • practice a self-confidence ritual
  • enjoy spending time alone
  • live your purpose
  • take nothing personally/refuse to take anything too personally
  • ask empowering questions
  • Don’t Pass Judgment
  • Speak with Certainty
  • Don’t Afraid to Ask for Help



How to be a confident woman at work/how to show confidence at work:

Have fun:
There’s nothing worse for your self-esteem than taking yourself too seriously. Of course you want to do a good job, but you can also have fun while you’re doing it. Learn to laugh at your setbacks and mistakes, and take criticism with good humor -you’ll be amazed how being more light-hearted boosts your confidence and helps you improve yourself.

Focus on your successes:
It’s difficult to boost confidence if you’re bemoaning what you don’t do well. Remind yourself of all the successful projects you’ve done to boost confidence in your abilities at work. Did you meet a tight deadline? Did you manage to turn a difficult project around? Did your boss praise one of your ideas? Recalling successful times at work is a better way to boost confidence instead of constantly focusing on the negatives.

Pick up new skills:
There is always room for improvement, and learning new skills will not only enhance proficiency at your job, but will also boost confidence. Watch what other people do successfully, and copy how they do it. Attend seminars designed to help you hone your skills and become a better worker. Pick useful skills such as time management, customer service, and productivity, or learn something new that will help specifically with your job.

Boost your knowledge:
A sure-fire way of being more certain of what you’re doing is to learn more. Read up on the latest research to enhance your knowledge. Knowing how and why certain practices and processes work can boost confidence in your ability to do them.

Eliminate negative language:
Sometimes the very language we use limits us. If you’re walking around all day saying “I can’t…” you’ll find that you are closing your mind to solutions. Instead ask yourself, “How could I…?” Finding effective solutions will boost confidence greatly. Many people place unnecessary limitations on themselves at work, by using the word “but” in their communication. Stop saying “but” for a while and notice how you can get more done if you make an effort, rather than making excuses.

Build on your strengths:
Studies have shown that a good way to boost confidence is to focus on your strengths rather than your weaknesses. Accept what you already do well, and make an effort to refine your better qualities. It’s a great confidence boost to do something excellently rather than adequately.

Eliminate All Distractions:
Distractions include the phone, email notifications and having multiple web browsers open on the desktop. Just as it’s important to be organized offline, it’s key to have things organized online as well. 

Listen to Music That Boosts Productivity:
Distractions should be avoided, but sometimes a bit of music in the background can help you focus.
Of course, it doesn’t need to be heavy rock music, but a bit of Beethoven may do you some good.

Don’t Multitask:
Research has shown that multitasking is not productive. If you think you can multitask, think again.
For optimum productivity, focus on one thing at a time.

How to show confidence while speaking:
Practice:
The key to doing anything well is doing it often and speech is no exception. When you’re nervous about a difficult conversation, such as making the case to your boss for a raise, or a scheduled talk in front of an audience, practice what you’ll say beforehand. Public-speaking expert Dale Carnegie recommends using a real or stand-in microphone if you’ll be using one during the actual event. Recording yourself is also a good way to figure out if you’re using the best pacing and pauses. It also allows you to evaluate your voice for clarity and volume.

Don't Articulate A Statement as a qutiston:
People ask questions when they’re missing information or want approval for an idea or decision. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with either of those situations, both can make you sound vulnerable. To project your ideas with confidence, don’t let your voice creep upward at the end of a sentence. Maintain an even tone of voice and finish your statements with periods, not question marks.

Use Your Hands:
The body language that accompanies your message is just as important as the words coming out of your mouth. Audiences perceive speakers to have more positive traits such as warmth and energy when they use a variety of gestures, according to Carol Kinsey Gorman, Ph.D., an executive coach and consultant in nonverbal communication. While some physical gestures, such as fiddling with clothing or touching hair, can distract or convey a lack of confidence, using your hands when you speak is a great way to communicate your excitement and knowledge about the topic.

Insert Smiles into Your Speech:
Have you heard the adage that smiles are contagious? Christine Clapp, a public-speaking expert at George Washington University, explains the benefits of smiling on both the speaker and the audience: “Smiling not only makes your voice more pleasant to listen to, it also conveys confidence . . . You will appear friendly, approachable, and composed.” That’s more than enough reason to grin the next time you give an important talk.

Maintain Good Posture:
Holding your head high and rolling your shoulders back won’t just make you look confident; it will improve the sound of your voice as well. Good posture enables you to breathe deeply in and out through your abdomen, which is how actors and other public speakers project their voices to resonate clearly throughout the space. So to maximize the power of your voice, sit, or stand up straight and take a deep breath.

Confident woman quotes:

“I think women tend not to show their abilities because women who do are perceived as arrogant. Whereas for men, it’s just something that is expected. As a woman progresses in her career and personal life, she naturally gains confidence. Be honest about your capabilities and what you’re willing to take on. It’s not everyone’s personality to be aggressive and take on a male-dominated environment. Find a mentor that can guide you. Be willing to explore until you find a place and position that fits for you.”--Neelima Sukhavasi

I would say there should be no reason for you to not consider yourself up to par with your male counter parts in the workplace. Know your work, build a support network and take example from those who have succeeded for how to present yourself and your ideas. Confidence is not about being a train wreck due to unbridled speed, but about striding forward without hesitancy and reflecting in your walk and talk that you know where you are going.”--Doa Jafri

"We realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced". — Malala Yousafzai
When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another. – Helen Keller.

 If you can’t make it better, you can laugh at it – Erma Bombeck.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back. – Maya Angelou.

The most effective way to do it, is to do it. – Amelia Earhart.

If you don’t like being a doormat then get off the floor. – Al Anon.

Anything you want to ask a teacher, ask yourself, and wait for the answer in silence. – Byron Katie.

It is only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on Earth and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it were the only one we had. – Elisabeth Kubler-Ross.

If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. – Katharine Hepburn.

When you forgive, you heal your own anger and hurt and are able to let love lead again. It’s like spring cleaning for your heart. – Marci Shimoff.

Forget about the fast lane. If you really want to fly, just harness your power to your passion. -Oprah.

Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience. – Sonia Choquette.


Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. – Maya Angelou.

Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is! – Anne Frank.

I don’t think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains. – Anne Frank.

I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. – Diane Ackerman.

Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, champagne in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming….. WOO HOO…. What a RIDE!”

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. – Eleanor Roosevelt.

You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself – Ethel Barrymore.

The secret of getting ahead is getting started. – Sally Berger.

What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner. – Colette.

I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning how to sail my ship. — Mary Louise Alcott

Life shrinks or expands in proportion with one’s courage. — Anaïs Nin

The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.


Some books for confident woman:

Reading these books will help for become confident woman.

The Confident Woman Devotional


The Confident Mom


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The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women: Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It


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